What Might Have Been: You’ve probably read the quote by Whittier, For all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: It might have been. My husband, Garey, has told me, on several occasions, that if I don’t get the books I’ve been writing published before I die, he’s going to get them published after I die, and then live like a king. This is supposed to serve as motivation to finish said books. It isn’t working. My extended, extended family has a history of aneurisms and heart attacks. If relatives dropping like flies isn’t enough to get my at