On Saturday morning, I woke with the thought, “This is Garey’s and my 40th anniversary.” The thought was immediately followed by, “Oh God, we’re in Alabama again.” Our wedding anniversaries have been like the movie, “Groundhog Day,” the same thing in the same place over and over again. Honestly, I don’t know how Garey and I have made it through forty years. I’ve told you before, we are not one of those couples who need to be held up as an example, unless it’s as an example of how marriage is not to be done.