Some years back I ran into the word, INTRACTABLE. I don’t recall ever using the word. However, the dictionary describes it as: impossible to reason with, non-compliant, or non-agreeable; stubborn, unruly, or disorderly.
I once knew a man who call himself a preacher. He would not hear of his daughter getting married although she was of age. He called her degrading, dirty names. The young man she married was a good, decent fellow they made a happy couple. The jerk of a father, being intractable, also had a mean streak about a mile wide.