Earlier today, I was listening to my granddaughter, Sabria, laugh as she dropped red and green beads into the icing atop a solid chocolate candy house that she and her mother, Natalie, were putting together. She cheered for herself after each successful try. (She has yet to learn the adult practice of false modesty.) She wanted to start nibbling on it as soon as it was finished, but her mom, like moms everywhere, told her it’s too pretty to eat, you will have to wait until later, and stand still so I can get your picture with it. Unbeknownst to Natalie, she placed the house on the kitch